Wife borrowed car without asking and...
You must have done something to her!
Lead Lap
Joined: Nov 2001
Posts: 4,584
Likes: 91
From: CA, Mid OC
Like I said, you have serious trust issues in your relationship. If your wife cannot respect the pride you take in your car, she does not respect you. Curbing a wheel, taking out the front bumper, if every time she drives your car she damages it, well then the first time she ****ed up she should know to never driver your car again.
I bet she is ****ing your best friend. Now I'm just kidding about the ****ing part, but if she disrespects you so much to injure your car every time she drives it, well she isn't entirely trustworthy IMO. If she knew she was a hazard on the road, then she wouldn't driver your car to start with.
I bet she is ****ing your best friend. Now I'm just kidding about the ****ing part, but if she disrespects you so much to injure your car every time she drives it, well she isn't entirely trustworthy IMO. If she knew she was a hazard on the road, then she wouldn't driver your car to start with.
Intermediate
Joined: Jul 2015
Posts: 450
Likes: 72
From: AZ
Like I said, you have serious trust issues in your relationship. If your wife cannot respect the pride you take in your car, she does not respect you. Curbing a wheel, taking out the front bumper, if every time she drives your car she damages it, well then the first time she ****ed up she should know to never driver your car again.
I bet she is ****ing your best friend. Now I'm just kidding about the ****ing part, but if she disrespects you so much to injure your car every time she drives it, well she isn't entirely trustworthy IMO. If she knew she was a hazard on the road, then she wouldn't driver your car to start with.
I bet she is ****ing your best friend. Now I'm just kidding about the ****ing part, but if she disrespects you so much to injure your car every time she drives it, well she isn't entirely trustworthy IMO. If she knew she was a hazard on the road, then she wouldn't driver your car to start with.
Last edited by 3ISRC; Sep 21, 2015 at 09:18 AM.
Lexus Champion
Joined: Feb 2013
Posts: 2,954
Likes: 235
From: SoCal
To the OP, even though you probably already dealt with it:
I care a lot about my car like you, but a car is just an object and can be easily repaired or replaced. I agree with others in that better communication is needed, and I know it might be difficult since you're probably furious, but try to handle it gently. Don't let something like this ruin your relationship. Look at all the positive reasons why you married her and I bet they'll outweigh this. Talk to her, get it fixed, and move on. Who knows...play your cards right and you might "get some" tonight.
Last edited by dchar; Sep 21, 2015 at 02:38 AM.
Lead Lap
Joined: Oct 2008
Posts: 628
Likes: 2
From: Texas
If I was you I will let her drive more when you guys go out together.The more she drive the more she get comfortable and get good at handle it and Im serious! You should train her to drive a lower car and you wont have to worry for the rest of your life about it.My brother taught my sister in law to drive a stick shift and they can share their cars. If you dont let her of course when she steal the key from you she wont get used to deal with your car at all. Haizzzz.
Last edited by EthanV; Sep 21, 2015 at 05:13 AM.
Rookie
Joined: Nov 2014
Posts: 42
Likes: 13
From: Qc
lol.. I see you are pretty new to this community. Hang on!!
some of these posts are funny to me. you can tell who's married or in a REAL relationship and who's not. i know some of the stuff posted are meant to be jokes or to make light of the subject, but I believe there are some that are true to what they wrote. but back to the subject....
to op, I'm sorry to hear that happened and it's bound to happen. although things could've went smoother in every aspect. the only issue I had with the situation is that she didn't tell you about it. I find it hard to believe that she didn't know, but then again I'm not her. if she did know, it would've been nice to have been aware out of courtesy. I'm sure (hope) that everything is resolved by now. get it repaired when can and move on. I feel you though...at the end, your relationship will outlast your car.
to op, I'm sorry to hear that happened and it's bound to happen. although things could've went smoother in every aspect. the only issue I had with the situation is that she didn't tell you about it. I find it hard to believe that she didn't know, but then again I'm not her. if she did know, it would've been nice to have been aware out of courtesy. I'm sure (hope) that everything is resolved by now. get it repaired when can and move on. I feel you though...at the end, your relationship will outlast your car.
Driver
Joined: Oct 2014
Posts: 120
Likes: 1
From: Dubai
Women wont ever understand the dynamics of a low car. It's always best to explain the things she should avoid when driving your car and it's also a good idea to give her some practice sessions in your car, so she gets used to it. But end of the day relationships are much greater than material objects. We all love our cars but be glad that it was just a lip that got hurt, not your wife.
Joined: Feb 2001
Posts: 31,944
Likes: 2,737
From: North Carolina
Women wont ever understand the dynamics of a low car. It's always best to explain the things she should avoid when driving your car and it's also a good idea to give her some practice sessions in your car, so she gets used to it. But end of the day relationships are much greater than material objects. We all love our cars but be glad that it was just a lip that got hurt, not your wife.
Thread
Thread Starter
Forum
Replies
Last Post