Disconnect DRL lighting

I read a thread on here a couple years ago on several ways to disconnect the DRLs. One option was to use a different relay which was a four prong instead of 5 prong. Does anyone know which relay and could send picture on location of which relay to replace on a 2009 Lexus rx350.

 

Probably someone here has the knowledge to do this at home and hopefully they'll share that. I do recall hearing the dealer/indy shops can use the Toyota computer and software; Techstream, to disable it as well.

 

https://www.clublexus.com/forums/is-...echstream.html