Looking at that brings tears to my eyes sorry to hear bout your accident but at least you are ok.

 

First of all good to hear that you are alright. Unless the insurance company is generous or unseen damage it is unlikely they will right it off. Doesn't look like damage exceeds value of the car. It can be repaired but unless the bodyshop is exceptional or that they can change the whole panel then sorry to tell you that it will be very difficult for it to look like new again. I think trying to convince your wife would be a better idea.

 

are those taillight on sell now... i don't think you need them anymore ... hope you get it fixed up

 

sorry to hear about the accident, but no need for coilovers now........ look at that wheel tuck DAMN!