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No I want to be able to start Siri by "Hey Siri" but I donot want that to be dispalyed on the car screen
The car is showing a microphone because you are using the microphone on the car after activating Siri while connected through Bluetooth. I don't think there is an iOS phone setting to disable using Siri through connected Bluetooth source.