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Old Dec 15, 2015 | 08:17 AM
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Default Auto Etiquette: touching someone's car/motorcycle

You think it's not that big of a deal, but to enthusiasts, it's pretty much equivalent to grabbing their girlfriend's ***.

Once, I went to a ClubLexus meet on my motorcycle, and one individual grabbed the throttle and revved my bike as I was sitting on it in neutral.

And I've seen guys lose it when someone fingerprints their newly detailed car, like someone just publically punched a baby in the face.


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Old Dec 15, 2015 | 08:58 AM
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I had a car that would exact its own punishment on tourists who couldn't keep their grubby hands off . . .

My old Opel Rallye had an OEM flat-black hood that showed fingerprints badly. Not only were the prints painfully obvious, but they were difficult to remove without polishing the flat surface. After a careful detail, I learned to park it in the sun . . . at least I'd get some retribution for all those people who seemed to think they just had to put their hands on my car. After an hour or two in the hot sun, that flat black finish could fry your fingers so badly you could almost hear the sizzle. I learned to pop the hood and reach underneath to lift it with a shop towel.
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Old Dec 15, 2015 | 09:36 AM
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Oh ya, do not touch my car/lean on it/step on it, I would be so mad and furious!!!

My wife and my kids learnt they can't even get close to have a chance to touch the paint and risking a scratch. I have one friend who always lean on cars he's close to but would never do it on my car cuz he knows I don't like it at all.
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Old Dec 15, 2015 | 09:56 AM
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You never lean on a man's car or sit on it. Only exception might be a pickup truck tailgate.
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Old Dec 15, 2015 | 10:11 AM
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You mean those ladies who put their purse on your trunk, drag it across to pick it up when they fumble for the keys is a big no-no???

People have no respect for other's property.

I've seen someone walked by, sat on a vespa. grab the handle bar (parked out front) and the owner came running out.
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Originally Posted by GS3Tek
I've seen someone walked by, sat on a vespa. grab the handle bar (parked out front) and the owner came running out.
Reminds me of the time when Planking was a rage.

A woman planked on my scooter as I looked on from the inside of a Starbucks.

*****.
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Old Dec 15, 2015 | 11:46 AM
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I'm firmly in the "don't touch it" camp.

During a previous service visit at my Lexus dealer, I had my 3 year old daughter with me. We walked into the showroom to look at the cars while we waited. I walked up to an RC and she said "now daddy, we look, but we don't touch." Proud daddy moment.
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what do you guys think about the people that write "wash me on the car"? what do you think of recipients?
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Originally Posted by doge
what do you guys think about the people that write "wash me on the car"? what do you think of recipients?
They're still touching the car, so just as bad.

On a lighter note I usually see the "Wish my gf was this dirty" written lol
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Old Dec 15, 2015 | 03:18 PM
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I'm also a "don't touch it" type of person. I cringed when I was dropping my buddy at the airport and he closed the trunk on my IS by placing his hand on the trunk lid. I always use the handle underneath the trunk with one hand and place the other hand on the license plate when closing it. When I close my door I only touch the door handle.

Yes I take cars too seriously lol.
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^ I think that's being a little OCD there. Although one of my pet peeves when I had my old Camaro with frameless door glass, is that you never touched the glass when you closed the door. Drove me nuts when people would do that, it put all kinds of stress on the glass/door parts and then you left fingerprints on the glass.
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Old Dec 15, 2015 | 05:41 PM
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Originally Posted by blacksc400
Oh ya, do not touch my car/lean on it/step on it, I would be so mad and furious!!!.
Wayback when I was an electrician I had a Camaro. I looked out of the window of a house that I was wiring and saw a contractor leaning on the rear with his foot up on the painted bumper.

I confronted him aggressively and he seemed confused as to why this was a problem. I was informed later by someone behind him that he pulled a knife out of his back pocket.
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A man should never share his wife and his car with anyone! Everything else is ok
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Lol yep, two things don't lend, woman and cars XD

If someone drive my car I feel like it's being raped that including mechanic/service person who work on my cars.
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Old Dec 16, 2015 | 09:24 AM
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touch it all you want, doesn't really bother me. it's silver, fingerprints and such don't really show up on it. if it can be washed off, then yeah whatever rub your hands all over it. i generally feel undeserving of my car lol so i try to let anyone who wants to drive it (with me in the car obviously), and if its a bit dirtier i don't feel as guilty about getting such a good car.

my cardinal rule is for the car to have been driving for at least 15 minutes before you can give it good throttle. people never expect the car to be as fast as it is so i wanna give them the chance to open it up a bit, but only when the oil is nice and warm.
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