okay so in the front under the driver side steering wheel is a fuse box and there’s a 15amp fuse that goes to the tailights and also my day time running lights and it popped and now everytime i put a new one in and start the car up it pops so the tailights haven’t been working but also my blinkers and break lights work

 

You’ve got a short circuit somewhere. Need to disconnect items controlled by that fuse until you find the culprit. Could even be a short in a wiring harness. Got any critters like mice that may have chewed on the wiring?

 

not that i know of i’ve been checking everywhere but im not too sure what to be looking at or where to be looking but i have checked the back and everything and it seems to be okay i do have aftermarket tailights and also Drls

 

Maybe water intrusion into the aftermarket items. I’d start by disconnecting the newest items first. And probably a good supply of fuses.

 

so i did take a look at this for any water damage but i seen nothing it also happens when i slam my door really hard or something it pops

 

So the door slam scenario is when the car is not running, but the lights are on? (Your first post stated that the fuse blows when starting the car.)
Sounds like a loose wire that shorts to ground upon some movement of the car.

 

the car is running or like once i slammed the trunk down and it also popped. i checked about everywhere that leads to the tailights but i haven’t discovered anything unusual