ok i tried the lighting thread but not getting any help there. am i supposed to just leave one of the plugs hanging around and not plugged up since the relay harness took over the other ballast furthest from the battery?

 

Yea the further factory headlight harnesses should be unplugged. I stuck a plastic cover on it so it doesn't get dirty. The relay should only use one of the factory harnesses as a switch when the headlight turns on/off. Other than that, power is drawn from your battery.

 

cool, thanks!