THANKS FOR ALL THE HELP!!! SERIOUSLY!!!
Ok first : thats interesting about the sway bar / auto adjusting headlights. reason being is i noticed the car has some sway to the rear end at highway speeds. bad enough that i assume the rear sway bar is disconnected or missing. probably bent bracket. just one of a zillion things i chalked up to : "ill fix it eventually" when i was weighing the pros and cons of buying a rebuilt salvage vehicle. i work less than 2 miles from my house, so the sway bar was not a big deal. very interesting to know it involves the headlights, im sure i will find fun there when i get to it.
as far as the washer goes - when i get some time i am going to try to disconnect it and flip it around. worse case scenario if i cannot figure it out i will delete it. i dont plan to use the headlight washers anyhow, but, if i can get them to fit right thats my preference, even if it doesnt get used.
funny thing is the washer system is inoperable right now anyways. the rubber line that runs from the bottom of the washer fluid tank to the area of the firewall near the drivers side of the cockpit of the car "fell off" one day says the previous owner. it was included, in the trunk of the car lol.
upon inspection it looks like the shop that did the front end repair hastily crimped the hose clamp on it because the little t fitting the hose clamp is supposed to clamp to either got lost or broken. so they improvised, which obviously didnt work long.
sigh. one thing at a time
still love the car of course.