Thank you all for your replies!
I finally put in an order for a Starfire Pearl + Cashmere. As a lot of you mentioned, after all it is my car and I have to get what I like. (Actually the perfect combo for me would be Tungsten Pearl + Cashmere, but they don't make it that way).
It looks like the IS350 is pretty hard to come by in the Bay Area. My sales lady had to preference it for me because there is just none in stock with LT + NV.
It's supposed to show up before the end of the month......